If you were to give advice to someone just starting to stretch their ears, what would it be

Slow and steady wins the race.

Don’t size up to fast, and keep them lubricated (I recommend jojoba oil for lubrication)

Don’t rush or they won’t heal properly. Also, always use some sort of lubricant. It’s a lot like losing your virginity. Go slow and use lube. Neosporin is a good lubricant. They even make a pain reliever one if you’re sensitive to the pain.

Slow and steady! Don’t rush the sizing, I like to stretch mine in the shower over time.

My advice, mind you I am not an expert, would be to use Tapper’s, and gradually stretch them using plenty of lubrication. I left each larger size in my ears for about 2 weeks. I have heard of people just forcing the larger sizes through because they are impatient and end up getting blow outs, no bueno. If you are impatient, I would say spend the money and go to a professional. My biggest and I think most important tips would be patience and lube. 🤘