Do you ever feel judged for having stretched ear?

Everything I wear in my ears end up being so comfortable that I forget they’re there. Maybe it’s because I’ve had them so long that I’m just used to them, but I don’t feel judged. If someone wants to judge me for something like that, I’m not even sure if I would notice. You can’t put me down for what I like.

a few times but never took it personally

Yes I’m always Constantly reduilced for my style but I don’t care I still love my lobes

I get judged all the time. Little kids stick their fingers through and such. But I never cared if I get judged. People are into body modification. People need to get over it. It makes me feel beautiful. So to hell if other people don’t find it attractive.

I actually came to this site to look for jewelry to start re stretching mine. I was with a company 7 years..5 of which they had no issue with my gauged ears. The last 2 i was a manager….a promotion that wasn’t dependant on my service or seniority not on my neat perfect attendance and willingness to work any shift, but whether or not I’d tone down my hair and not wear my gauges. So i took them out bc, well, i needed my paycheckat the time. Now I’m in a different situation where i work from home and i can look however i please lol so I’m going to start the process all over